Dating: What woman asked men and what they asked back ( dating panel)

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What do girls wonder about boys and dating?
What boys wonder about girls and dating?

Have you ever wanted to know what's on the opposite sex's mind with dating? In a dating panel held on a Sunday afternoon in a young single adult ward(18yr-31yr) I asked them. The men and woman wrote down their questions about dating to the men, and the men to the woman.
In what was supposed to be a 1 hour lesson on dating turned into a 2 hour over time discussion between the men and woman sharing their desires, frustrations and other thoughts on their mind. What did they ask? Find the questions the men and woman wrote down below. Some may be obvious, others surprising. What Can you learn from this? Shoot me your answers!

Girls

1. Would you date someone in your own ward? Why or why not?
2. What do you find intimidating in a woman?
3. What do you find annoying in a girl?
4. Why does it take so long for a guy to ask a girl on a date?
5. What do you think the most attractive quality in a girl is?
6. What do you think when a girl asks you out? Like it? Or not so much?
7. Do guys like it when girls chase guys? Like….should girls be passive, mediocrely, interested or forward?
8. Why do you text? We deserve a phone call?
9. What one thing can we do to make you feel more comfortable dating us?
10. The Apostles say don’t date men that ain't worthy to go to the temple. What if they are working towards it? And how do you know if it is just an act?
11. Do boys like it when girls make the first move?
12. Why do boys not like short hair?
13. What makes you the more nervous on a first date?
14. What makes you nervous about a first date?
15. How can you tell if someone is being really nice or if they really like you?
16. What is the difference between hanging out and dating?
17. Who are the girls you “date” opposed to the girls you “marry”?
18. How do you feel about girls asking the guy out?
19. How can we tell you are really interested, or if you are just looking for a good time?
20. How would you compromise if both people are in disagreement?
21. How can you tell the other person really sees you as “equal”?
22. What kinds of qualities draw you to a woman?
23. Why aren't guys asking girls out?
24. What are they afraid of?
25. Why do they prefer girls to ask them out?
26. What’s a good first date?
27. Date or hangout?
28. What would make you more comfortable asking a girl out?
29. Why just stop calling? Talk about it!
30. Does it make boys mad when they pay for a dinner and the girl doesn't eat it still?
31. Why do boys act interested when they really aren't?
32. If a girl doesn't want to go on dates with a guy anymore, how do you prefer they say it?
33. What’s the top deal breaker
34. What is the first thing you notice?
35. If something goes wrong on a first date, would there be a second?
36. Girls spend hours getting ready do you even notice?

Guys

1. What would be an appropriate way to maintain chivalry and also ask a girl to pay for the entire date?
2. Is it wrong to expect the same level of physical fitness in your spouse as I have?
3. Is there anything wrong with asking a friend out without worrying about ruining the friendship?
4. How do you just not give a crap and be yourself when dating, in other words be real, honest and let that girl know that you have always liked them and let them know that you’re the man but not cocky and that you have the best heart and will take good care of them?
5. Do you ask the girl her opinion on the date?
6. If the guy is going through a hard goal in the church, when is it a good time to tell them?
7. What is a way to show interest without overbearing?
8. If the girl 90% of the time is the coolest girl ever then the other 10% she is completely psycho what does that mean? (don’t use the monthly excuse)
9. Do Pick Up lines work?
10. What are signs that a girl is interested?
11. Does age matter?
12. What is the group bathroom trip all about?
13. Is a group or single date preferred for the first date?
14. In general do guys move too slow or too fast when dating?
15. Do girls really like chocolates?
16. Is approaching a total stranger on campus, bus, etc… and asking for a number too forward?
17. When a guy wants to introduce himself to a girl and strike up a conversation but the girl is in a group of girls chatting the whole time, a group of girls the guy doesn't know, how does the guy get the girl to separate from the group so he can talk with her and hopefully ask her on a date?
18. How long should the guy wait to go out on a second and third date? Both had a great time…how often should you text?